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Actress Caroline Danjuma addressed alot of issues regarding the picture going round the internet about her marriage
See her post below...
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I am going to address this one time and that is it…. I got married to a
man who was legally divorced for 4 years (fact).. I didn’t know who is
family was as I wasn’t that sort of girl that read the news paper . 
Age was nothing but a number to me and yes I truly was in luv (it was my choice).
Age was nothing but a number to me and yes I truly was in luv (it was my choice).
Ever since I got married it has been one
story or the other and I have been extremely quiet and tolerant
irrespective of the negative reputation it brought to my name (the price
I had to pay). I never expected a perfect man and I for one knew that
all men cheat (in the real world) but there are limits to everything . I
took a lot because I believe when you truly luv someone you should luv
their flaws first before their beautiful side. I truly luv my husband ,
he added so much value to my life . Nothing in life comes easy sometimes
we go through fire and storms to mould us into what God has truly
destined us to be. One would think I lost a lot but no I gained more,
marriage they say is the best institution of life and certainly I could
rate mine as Harvard of marriage.
Every single storm I went through only
made me see a strength in me I never knew I had. It thought me to
forgive before being hurt, to luv unconditionally, to accept one’s flaws
knowing I ain’t perfect either , to be patient, hardworking , prudent
and extremely prayerful … It certainly made me see the beautiful side of
me and made me work on my bad sides. Marriage is not about changing the
other it’s about finding urself and working on your own flaws. 
Only
once have I confronted a mistress and this is because she sent people
to threaten me and kept calling my phone late at night telling me to
stay away from my own husband 
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Well I have fought a good fight to sustain my home and I know I gave it
my best shot .. Even though it is not in my nature to give up but
sometimes you just have to let go and pray for the best. Everyone in
life is fighting a demon some are lucky enough to have the grace to
resist it. This is my family and I will never condemn him .. While you
throw stones at him and call him names make sure you have no skeletons
in ur cupboard. No one has the right to judge.
Only
once have I confronted a mistress and this is because she sent people
to threaten me and kept calling my phone late at night telling me to
stay away from my own husband .
Well I have fought a good fight to sustain my home and I know I gave it
my best shot .. Even though it is not in my nature to give up but
sometimes you just have to let go and pray for the best. Everyone in
life is fighting a demon some are lucky enough to have the grace to
resist it. This is my family and I will never condemn him .. While you
throw stones at him and call him names make sure you have no skeletons
in ur cupboard. No one has the right to judge.
My purpose in life is to continuously be
a better person .. Women slide through my DM sending me pictures and
messages of their intimate trips .
I read a lot and see a lot . I have chosen my battles carefully and one
of them is not monitoring a man old enough to know what to do . The
question is I see beyond what you all see, I see a man who takes good
care of our kids , a man who has supported me financially, yes he might
not be the best husband but I appreciate him in every way. No one ever
gets a complete man. We might not be compatible as husband and wife but I
am blessed to have him in my life.
.
I read a lot and see a lot . I have chosen my battles carefully and one
of them is not monitoring a man old enough to know what to do . The
question is I see beyond what you all see, I see a man who takes good
care of our kids , a man who has supported me financially, yes he might
not be the best husband but I appreciate him in every way. No one ever
gets a complete man. We might not be compatible as husband and wife but I
am blessed to have him in my life.
I am not that sort of a woman who
condemns and forgets the little good deed another does. Everything
counts to me. So enough of bashing the father of my kids. Enough of
calling him names because you are opportune a to see him in odd places,
enough of the pictures. Only God has the right to judge. My kids sanity
are my priority and I will do what ever it takes to give them a good
upbringing . I am not a tree I know when to move till then stop being a
spy no one needs it. You don’t need to bring out pictures and tag me,
you don’t need to slide through my DM. I can handle my biz my self..
Thank you
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